Daddy got home from his 8 day trip...and Jack got his first tooth! And it's FRIDAY!!
Life is good!
(Pictures to follow!)
Friday, November 13, 2009
Monday, November 2, 2009
Into the Wild
The Nastase family went on a search for adventure this past Sunday. We drove down to the Santa Ritas (the mountain range about 30 minutes south of us) and decided to hike the Elephant Head trail. Elephant Head is an aptly named peak on the Southwest end of the range. Here is a photo of it, taken by my mom. (Can you see the profile of an elephant, wrinkles, the outline of the trunk and an eye?)
The craggy, remote-looking surface is vastly different than the other mountains around, and we had never been there, so it was the perfect place to go explore.
On our drive we discussed Ryan & Abby having almost encountered a black bear just a few weeks before, in the same mountain range. (They were hiking in Madera Canyon, just a few miles from E.H.) Shivers of fear went up & down my spine as I considered the danger. Thankful that they had escaped peril, I reentered our conversation.
Coincidentally, Sophia recently completed a unit on the black bear in school, and was sharing useful information about the animal. (One such piece of 'information', "Black bears love gummy bears. If you have grass and berries, you can give them to a black bear if you see one. If you give it gummy bears, it will eat them all and be very happy!")
As we parked our vehicle at the trail head and prepared to embark on our jaunt, Sophia informed us (in a stage whisper) "I brought gummy bears! Just in case."
Daddy, a world-traveling-outdoorsman, reassured us we were safe, that bears don't come down "this low".
Even with his words of comfort, as we trampled through the savannah, I quietly kept my eyes and ears peeled for fast moving, carnivorous wildlife. (Lions and tigers and bears, oh my!)
After awhile, though, my concern waned and I became more comfortable and began to enjoy the lovely day and the unique topography. Jack was happily perched in a backpack carrier and Sophia skipped along, singing sweetly under her breath. The sky in Arizona is amazing and so BIG, the mountains surrounding us accent the beauty perfectly.
We stopped to admire a strange tree, bare of leaves except for a large ball of greenery hanging near the top. The naturalist in our group (Chris) recognized it as mistletoe.(Who knew that a Christmas decoration grew in the southwest?!)
As we continued on our westward march, I *thought* I heard something. Then I heard it again. A very low, very loud sound, then movement in the grass. It was around the corner on the path on which we were walking.
And then, through the amber brush, I saw a dark flash...
AND THERE IT WAS...
MOOO!
Then from all directions around us, a chorus of moos answered the "Path Blocker". We laughed out loud, a little bit out of relief. Then he mooed again and the chorus mooed and we laughed some more. And then he stood there. And we just stood there. All of us eyed each other warily, like ninja warriors sizing one another up.
We were, in a phrase, in a "Mexican Standoff". With a brown cow. (A herd of his brethren had his back and were mocking us, in their cow way.)
The Path Blocker was BIG! Sophia was in awe and I have to admit being a little overwhelmed. We yelled, yeehawed and gitouttahere'd at the beast, but to no avail. I'd almost given up and suggested that we retreat, but then inspiration struck. We could "tip" it! Being from Nebraska, cow tipping should come as second nature to me. (Unfortunately it doesn't.) Soon as that brilliant thought was born, its sister followed. "Doesn't one tip sleeping bovine?" This one was clearly WIDE AWAKE. And still not moving.
Finally my big, brave husband slowly moved forward waving his massive, muscular arms, the cow (in terror) threw out the white flag and gave in. He moved slowly to the side, and as we passed, emitted a last, mournful "moo".
Man prevailed over wild, once again.
The craggy, remote-looking surface is vastly different than the other mountains around, and we had never been there, so it was the perfect place to go explore.
On our drive we discussed Ryan & Abby having almost encountered a black bear just a few weeks before, in the same mountain range. (They were hiking in Madera Canyon, just a few miles from E.H.) Shivers of fear went up & down my spine as I considered the danger. Thankful that they had escaped peril, I reentered our conversation.
Coincidentally, Sophia recently completed a unit on the black bear in school, and was sharing useful information about the animal. (One such piece of 'information', "Black bears love gummy bears. If you have grass and berries, you can give them to a black bear if you see one. If you give it gummy bears, it will eat them all and be very happy!")
As we parked our vehicle at the trail head and prepared to embark on our jaunt, Sophia informed us (in a stage whisper) "I brought gummy bears! Just in case."
Daddy, a world-traveling-outdoorsman, reassured us we were safe, that bears don't come down "this low".
Even with his words of comfort, as we trampled through the savannah, I quietly kept my eyes and ears peeled for fast moving, carnivorous wildlife. (Lions and tigers and bears, oh my!)
After awhile, though, my concern waned and I became more comfortable and began to enjoy the lovely day and the unique topography. Jack was happily perched in a backpack carrier and Sophia skipped along, singing sweetly under her breath. The sky in Arizona is amazing and so BIG, the mountains surrounding us accent the beauty perfectly.
We stopped to admire a strange tree, bare of leaves except for a large ball of greenery hanging near the top. The naturalist in our group (Chris) recognized it as mistletoe.(Who knew that a Christmas decoration grew in the southwest?!)
As we continued on our westward march, I *thought* I heard something. Then I heard it again. A very low, very loud sound, then movement in the grass. It was around the corner on the path on which we were walking.
And then, through the amber brush, I saw a dark flash...
AND THERE IT WAS...
MOOO!
Then from all directions around us, a chorus of moos answered the "Path Blocker". We laughed out loud, a little bit out of relief. Then he mooed again and the chorus mooed and we laughed some more. And then he stood there. And we just stood there. All of us eyed each other warily, like ninja warriors sizing one another up.
We were, in a phrase, in a "Mexican Standoff". With a brown cow. (A herd of his brethren had his back and were mocking us, in their cow way.)
The Path Blocker was BIG! Sophia was in awe and I have to admit being a little overwhelmed. We yelled, yeehawed and gitouttahere'd at the beast, but to no avail. I'd almost given up and suggested that we retreat, but then inspiration struck. We could "tip" it! Being from Nebraska, cow tipping should come as second nature to me. (Unfortunately it doesn't.) Soon as that brilliant thought was born, its sister followed. "Doesn't one tip sleeping bovine?" This one was clearly WIDE AWAKE. And still not moving.
Finally my big, brave husband slowly moved forward waving his massive, muscular arms, the cow (in terror) threw out the white flag and gave in. He moved slowly to the side, and as we passed, emitted a last, mournful "moo".
Man prevailed over wild, once again.
Saturday, October 31, 2009
Halloween
Halloween started out for us on Friday, with a costume parade and a day of fun at Sophia's school. The children were to dress in their halloween costumes, but since Sophia's was white (she was a bride), I knew it would get ruined before the big day if she wore it to school. Instead, she was a cute little GOOD witch. (She reminded me and everyone who saw her, numerous times!)
I came as the Mama Good Witch.
That evening was pumpkin carving...with amusing results.
On Saturday, after a morning birthday party, we joined friends for a really fun pre-trick 'r treat potluck. All the kids came dressed in their Halloween best...Sophia was a little bride.
Some of the kids from the party...can you spot Malachai?
Chris made a delicious rat loaf...but hardly anyone tried it. Wonder why?!
Our handsome and lovely host couple 
Robert, Chris and Ryan were protecting the sofa from ghosts and goblins!
Arrgh! Me sleepy!
Robert, Chris and Ryan were protecting the sofa from ghosts and goblins!
Arrgh! Me sleepy!
Sunday, October 25, 2009
Fall Festival at Agua Linda Pumpkin Patch
Fall in the great Southwest is very different than it is back home in the Midwest. Due to the less dramatic change in temperatures; the changing of the colors here is less dramatic, as well. Autumn here is beautiful, nonetheless.
Today we partook in the great Autumn tradition of "Fall Festival" at Agua Linda Farm, which is a rustic little organic farm along the bank of the Santa Cruz river. The weather was beautiful, mid-70s and the sky was a beautiful blue. The aroma of kettle corn, hamburgers and sweet treats was thick in the air as we enjoyed a maze, swinging on a herd of tire swings, the petting zoo, live music and snocones! lol
Notice the bottom of Alexa's sack...
We love our beautiful, adopted home!
Today we partook in the great Autumn tradition of "Fall Festival" at Agua Linda Farm, which is a rustic little organic farm along the bank of the Santa Cruz river. The weather was beautiful, mid-70s and the sky was a beautiful blue. The aroma of kettle corn, hamburgers and sweet treats was thick in the air as we enjoyed a maze, swinging on a herd of tire swings, the petting zoo, live music and snocones! lol
Notice the bottom of Alexa's sack...
We love our beautiful, adopted home!
Friday, August 28, 2009
“Mother Guilt: Home Sick or Homesick?”
So often, as a mother, you walk a fine line between either coddling your children too much or not enough. It’s hard to know when a hug & kiss or a stern but loving response is best. I’ve been challenged with this line many times since Sophia started kindergarten.
Take last night, for instance. Yesterday evening was Open House at the Primary School. We (Chris and I) looked forward to Sophia being able to “show off” her classroom, her teacher and of course, her hard work. We realize that it is probably daunting for her to have an older sibling like Alexa, who excels in school and in social situations. Alexa generally chooses the right and makes good decisions. We don’t ever want Sophia to feel that there is a competition between them, or worse yet, decide to take the opposite path in school and in life. Thus, we make extra effort to focus on Sophia’s successes and her best efforts.
That being said, I also pride myself on raising my children using firm boundaries. I want them to have and use good manners and to be appropriate at all times. This pride has been challenged recently, most often when it’s most important to me for them to behave “perfectly”. (Occasions such as family weddings, baptisms, etc. are prime examples.) So, when Sophia or Alexa misbehave, I am torn between ignoring the bad behavior and focusing on the good or punishing the bad immediately. This brings us back to Open House.
Almost as soon as we walked into the classroom, Sophia morphed from helpful, smart and sweet five year-old into the female version of her kindergarten-nemesis, Malachai. She ran around the room, pulling toys out and leaving them on the floor, tickling her classmates inappropriately, poking noses and being an all around pain! I was mortified. When I chastised her quietly, she burst into sobs and wailed that she wanted to go home, "now!" Later, as we ate outside on the playground, she ran around without her shoes, dripped her icee juice all over and wouldn’t listen as we calmly asked her to “settle down”. We left the school with Sophia screaming loudly, tears streaming down her face because we wouldn’t take her to the swings. Parents gave us the knowing glances that I sometimes give when I see “out-of-control-kids”; it was embarrassing to be on the receiving end.
I wondered if we were being too hard on her; or not hard enough. I honestly thought a swat to her behind was in order, but didn’t choose to do it. The long school day was definitely a factor in her acting out; as a cranky kindergartner, maybe she just needed some tender loving care to snap out of it. When we arrived home I quickly changed clothes and headed to a fitness class. I came back after she was already asleep and felt remorse that I hadn’t left her with a kind word or a hug.
Which bring us to this morning. At about 5:45 am, I was awakened by Sophia, peering at me from the side of my bed. “Mama, I threw up.” I groggily reached for my cell phone and noted the time. I asked what happened. She said that she had felt sick and vomited in the toilet. I have to admit that I was very doubtful. On the heels of last night’s shenanigans, I wondered if she wasn’t faking in order to get some attention and make-up cuddling with mommy. Was she going to be staying home, sick or was she just “homesick”? The transition to all-day kindergarten has really made her miss me, she tells me that every day. I could understand her looking for a little love! I dutifully felt her head, which was warm. “Let me call daddy” I said.
I had a short discussion with Chris where he informed me that when he was leaving for work, she claimed to have thrown up then, too. He determined that she had choked on a drink of water and had spit the water out on her blanket. We agreed that she was most likely just acting sick. The problem is, I couldn’t send her to school even if she WAS faking. Sophia is the child who would tell every adult she came across, “I threw up two times this morning!” and they would be led to believe that I sent my sick baby to school and was the most neglectful mom EVER! No, I reasoned, it was better to keep her home to be on the safe side. And if she was faking, she was going to be taught a lesson.
First, I called and cancelled her scheduled after-school play date. I made the call within her earshot. Then I cancelled our fun dinner plans with some good friends. Next, I called the school. When she asked for breakfast, I didn’t play it as carefully as I would have had I really thought she was ill. Instead of dry toast, I gave her garlicky spinach scrambled eggs and buttery toast. Then, as my coup de grace, when she strolled through my room to the master bath, I stopped her. “You can’t be in my room, the baby is in here! You could make him sick, too.” “But I feel like I’m gonna throw up!” she said, with a grimace. I suggested that she go throw up in her bathroom and I warned her not to flush the toilet if she did, as I would want to examine it.
*This is where I should stop and warn the queasy reader that this story does not have a happy ending. And I should note that I am one of the queasiest. I can barely type this without gagging.*
A few minutes later she appeared in my doorway. “Mom, I threw up. I didn’t flush the toilet, but I got some on the rug. Sorry!” It was said in such an upbeat, lighthearted way that I imagined she was pulling my leg. In an exaggerated manner, I quickly ran into the hall. And ran head-on into a wall of the unmistakable scent of emesis. Poor Sophia had regurgitated garlicky spinach scrambled eggs…all the way down the hall, all over the carpet. The emesis explosion continued into the girls’ bathroom, on the floor, on any dirty clothes left on the floor, on the tub, around and on the toilet, with a tiny bit actually in the bowl.
That’s when my mommy guilt hit me in the face, hard. My poor little angel WASN’T faking. And I had not been very tender OR loving! AND my care consisted of feeding her something which very well exacerbated her already ailing tummy. Needless to say, the rest of my morning has been spent paying my penance by cleaning, cleaning again and being the cheerful servant to a remarkably upbeat Sophia.
Take last night, for instance. Yesterday evening was Open House at the Primary School. We (Chris and I) looked forward to Sophia being able to “show off” her classroom, her teacher and of course, her hard work. We realize that it is probably daunting for her to have an older sibling like Alexa, who excels in school and in social situations. Alexa generally chooses the right and makes good decisions. We don’t ever want Sophia to feel that there is a competition between them, or worse yet, decide to take the opposite path in school and in life. Thus, we make extra effort to focus on Sophia’s successes and her best efforts.
That being said, I also pride myself on raising my children using firm boundaries. I want them to have and use good manners and to be appropriate at all times. This pride has been challenged recently, most often when it’s most important to me for them to behave “perfectly”. (Occasions such as family weddings, baptisms, etc. are prime examples.) So, when Sophia or Alexa misbehave, I am torn between ignoring the bad behavior and focusing on the good or punishing the bad immediately. This brings us back to Open House.
Almost as soon as we walked into the classroom, Sophia morphed from helpful, smart and sweet five year-old into the female version of her kindergarten-nemesis, Malachai. She ran around the room, pulling toys out and leaving them on the floor, tickling her classmates inappropriately, poking noses and being an all around pain! I was mortified. When I chastised her quietly, she burst into sobs and wailed that she wanted to go home, "now!" Later, as we ate outside on the playground, she ran around without her shoes, dripped her icee juice all over and wouldn’t listen as we calmly asked her to “settle down”. We left the school with Sophia screaming loudly, tears streaming down her face because we wouldn’t take her to the swings. Parents gave us the knowing glances that I sometimes give when I see “out-of-control-kids”; it was embarrassing to be on the receiving end.
I wondered if we were being too hard on her; or not hard enough. I honestly thought a swat to her behind was in order, but didn’t choose to do it. The long school day was definitely a factor in her acting out; as a cranky kindergartner, maybe she just needed some tender loving care to snap out of it. When we arrived home I quickly changed clothes and headed to a fitness class. I came back after she was already asleep and felt remorse that I hadn’t left her with a kind word or a hug.
Which bring us to this morning. At about 5:45 am, I was awakened by Sophia, peering at me from the side of my bed. “Mama, I threw up.” I groggily reached for my cell phone and noted the time. I asked what happened. She said that she had felt sick and vomited in the toilet. I have to admit that I was very doubtful. On the heels of last night’s shenanigans, I wondered if she wasn’t faking in order to get some attention and make-up cuddling with mommy. Was she going to be staying home, sick or was she just “homesick”? The transition to all-day kindergarten has really made her miss me, she tells me that every day. I could understand her looking for a little love! I dutifully felt her head, which was warm. “Let me call daddy” I said.
I had a short discussion with Chris where he informed me that when he was leaving for work, she claimed to have thrown up then, too. He determined that she had choked on a drink of water and had spit the water out on her blanket. We agreed that she was most likely just acting sick. The problem is, I couldn’t send her to school even if she WAS faking. Sophia is the child who would tell every adult she came across, “I threw up two times this morning!” and they would be led to believe that I sent my sick baby to school and was the most neglectful mom EVER! No, I reasoned, it was better to keep her home to be on the safe side. And if she was faking, she was going to be taught a lesson.
First, I called and cancelled her scheduled after-school play date. I made the call within her earshot. Then I cancelled our fun dinner plans with some good friends. Next, I called the school. When she asked for breakfast, I didn’t play it as carefully as I would have had I really thought she was ill. Instead of dry toast, I gave her garlicky spinach scrambled eggs and buttery toast. Then, as my coup de grace, when she strolled through my room to the master bath, I stopped her. “You can’t be in my room, the baby is in here! You could make him sick, too.” “But I feel like I’m gonna throw up!” she said, with a grimace. I suggested that she go throw up in her bathroom and I warned her not to flush the toilet if she did, as I would want to examine it.
*This is where I should stop and warn the queasy reader that this story does not have a happy ending. And I should note that I am one of the queasiest. I can barely type this without gagging.*
A few minutes later she appeared in my doorway. “Mom, I threw up. I didn’t flush the toilet, but I got some on the rug. Sorry!” It was said in such an upbeat, lighthearted way that I imagined she was pulling my leg. In an exaggerated manner, I quickly ran into the hall. And ran head-on into a wall of the unmistakable scent of emesis. Poor Sophia had regurgitated garlicky spinach scrambled eggs…all the way down the hall, all over the carpet. The emesis explosion continued into the girls’ bathroom, on the floor, on any dirty clothes left on the floor, on the tub, around and on the toilet, with a tiny bit actually in the bowl.
That’s when my mommy guilt hit me in the face, hard. My poor little angel WASN’T faking. And I had not been very tender OR loving! AND my care consisted of feeding her something which very well exacerbated her already ailing tummy. Needless to say, the rest of my morning has been spent paying my penance by cleaning, cleaning again and being the cheerful servant to a remarkably upbeat Sophia.
Friday, August 21, 2009
The Kindergarten Chronicles Part II
Today Chris went to school to have lunch with Sophia, then help in her computer class. For those of you who were never a kindergartner, or don't have children of your own; a parent-helper is BIG STUFF for the elementary school crowd. Kids gather around the parents, asking various questions, sharing family secrets, and the visitor is treated pretty much like a celebrity.
Chris tries to eat lunch with each of our kids at least a couple times each school year. He is always amused by the attention-seeking & posturing by their classmates (mostly the boys) and by the adorable things kids say.
So, he wasn't surprised when, as he and Sophia lined up to go to lunch, a little boy tugged on his shirt. "Are you Sophia's daddy?" the child queried. Chris, being a modern day Sherlock Holmes, deduced quickly that this was the infamous Malachai. "Yep, I'm her dad" he answered. Malachai sized him up, then asked, "Can I feel your muscles?"
Chris, thrown off guard, moved his shirt sleeve up a bit and flexed his arm. Malachai tentatively touched the bicep with the tip of his pointy finger. "Wow, you look awesome!" he said with big eyes, and walked away.
Somehow I don't think we need to worry about Chris receiving an invitation for a Daddy Fight any time soon!
Chris tries to eat lunch with each of our kids at least a couple times each school year. He is always amused by the attention-seeking & posturing by their classmates (mostly the boys) and by the adorable things kids say.
So, he wasn't surprised when, as he and Sophia lined up to go to lunch, a little boy tugged on his shirt. "Are you Sophia's daddy?" the child queried. Chris, being a modern day Sherlock Holmes, deduced quickly that this was the infamous Malachai. "Yep, I'm her dad" he answered. Malachai sized him up, then asked, "Can I feel your muscles?"
Chris, thrown off guard, moved his shirt sleeve up a bit and flexed his arm. Malachai tentatively touched the bicep with the tip of his pointy finger. "Wow, you look awesome!" he said with big eyes, and walked away.
Somehow I don't think we need to worry about Chris receiving an invitation for a Daddy Fight any time soon!
Wednesday, August 19, 2009
The Kindergarten Chronicles
Kindergarten has been full of surprises (both good and bad) and lots of new experiences for Sophia. Our inquisitive, confident and active five-year old is exploring a whole new world!
Due to leaving out of town on the second day of school this year (we traveled back to the Midwest for Ryan's wedding to Abby and to baptize Jack Thomas), Sophia missed five days of school. Playing catch-up not only while learning classroom rules and norms; but even as far as going to sleep & getting up in the morning, has been a challenge. (Especially for mama!) Her school day begins at 7:30 a.m. and ends at 2:05 p.m. As a result, she comes home very tired and in the mornings has complained that "school is just too long!"
The other morning, after singing that particular tune, she began to argue her point. "Mom, Miss Sarah's preschool wasn't this long. I don't want to go to kindergarten anymore." True, this past year her preschool schedule was Monday, Wednesday, Friday from 11:30-2 p.m. "Sophia, " I reasoned, "preschool is a practice for real school. Kindergarten is practice for first grade, first grade is practice for second grade and so on." She considered this for a moment, then asked, "Why can't you just home-school me?"
Why indeed. I pondered this for about 2.5 seconds before I replied, "Because mommy is very attached to her sanity." She scrunched up her face in that look and said, "I don't know about your sanity, but that dang school is too long!"
Our Kindergarten Friends
Yesterday, as I walked towards her in Parent Pick-up, I could see that she was upset. The Parent Pick-up is where the children who don't ride the bus are corralled until their moms or dads arrive. The gym is sectioned off with orange cones and by class; guarded by aides who can't let you retrieve your child unless you provide a photo id.
From across the room I could see that she looked unhappy, her usual sunshiney visage was replaced with a very glum look. When our eyes met, she immediately jumped up & burst into sobs. I kneeled down and asked what was wrong. She tried to tell me through her tears, but all I could understand is that a little boy (sitting in time-out next to the aide) was the cause of my little angel's distress. While I tried to calm her down, another little boy approached, sadness and concern etched on his face. With wide blue eyes, he asked, "Sophia, what's wrong? Why are you sad?" It turns out that this caring little guy is *Tim, a boy from another kindergarten class, who introduced himself & befriended Sophia on the very first day.
According to Sophia, the cause of her tears was *Malachai. Apparently they had words and he told her that he was going to have his daddy come beat up her daddy. As those words escaped her lips, she erupted into a whole new cacophony of sobs. I tried gamely to not snicker at the age-old playground taunt...as a grade-schooler I myself partook of the very same taunt. (Rather, I engaged in a tête-à-tête with a classmate, each of us bragging how much beer our dads could drink. I won when I claimed that MY dad could drink a whole six-pack without getting drunk. I know. Priceless.) OK, back to the matter at hand.
After I asserted to Sophia that her daddy was NOT going to get beat up, in fact there would be NO daddy fights, she calmed down a bit. "Those words STILL hurt my feelings" she sniffed. I explained that sometimes kids say silly things that they a) don't mean and b) don't understand.
She expressed some fears for her daddy's safety and then said, "I want him to know!" with a gush of new tears. We called daddy at work, whose parental wisdom (and sense of humor) never fails to amuse me. His response? "Tell Sophia that if Malachai's daddy tries to beat our daddy up, daddy will smush him like a bug."
I've got a sneaking suspicion that I am going to have a lot of material to add to the "Kindergarten Chronicles"!
*Names have been changed to protect the innocent and/or because I think we'll be hearing about them more throughout the year!
Due to leaving out of town on the second day of school this year (we traveled back to the Midwest for Ryan's wedding to Abby and to baptize Jack Thomas), Sophia missed five days of school. Playing catch-up not only while learning classroom rules and norms; but even as far as going to sleep & getting up in the morning, has been a challenge. (Especially for mama!) Her school day begins at 7:30 a.m. and ends at 2:05 p.m. As a result, she comes home very tired and in the mornings has complained that "school is just too long!"
The other morning, after singing that particular tune, she began to argue her point. "Mom, Miss Sarah's preschool wasn't this long. I don't want to go to kindergarten anymore." True, this past year her preschool schedule was Monday, Wednesday, Friday from 11:30-2 p.m. "Sophia, " I reasoned, "preschool is a practice for real school. Kindergarten is practice for first grade, first grade is practice for second grade and so on." She considered this for a moment, then asked, "Why can't you just home-school me?"
Why indeed. I pondered this for about 2.5 seconds before I replied, "Because mommy is very attached to her sanity." She scrunched up her face in that look and said, "I don't know about your sanity, but that dang school is too long!"
Our Kindergarten Friends
Yesterday, as I walked towards her in Parent Pick-up, I could see that she was upset. The Parent Pick-up is where the children who don't ride the bus are corralled until their moms or dads arrive. The gym is sectioned off with orange cones and by class; guarded by aides who can't let you retrieve your child unless you provide a photo id.
From across the room I could see that she looked unhappy, her usual sunshiney visage was replaced with a very glum look. When our eyes met, she immediately jumped up & burst into sobs. I kneeled down and asked what was wrong. She tried to tell me through her tears, but all I could understand is that a little boy (sitting in time-out next to the aide) was the cause of my little angel's distress. While I tried to calm her down, another little boy approached, sadness and concern etched on his face. With wide blue eyes, he asked, "Sophia, what's wrong? Why are you sad?" It turns out that this caring little guy is *Tim, a boy from another kindergarten class, who introduced himself & befriended Sophia on the very first day.
According to Sophia, the cause of her tears was *Malachai. Apparently they had words and he told her that he was going to have his daddy come beat up her daddy. As those words escaped her lips, she erupted into a whole new cacophony of sobs. I tried gamely to not snicker at the age-old playground taunt...as a grade-schooler I myself partook of the very same taunt. (Rather, I engaged in a tête-à-tête with a classmate, each of us bragging how much beer our dads could drink. I won when I claimed that MY dad could drink a whole six-pack without getting drunk. I know. Priceless.) OK, back to the matter at hand.
After I asserted to Sophia that her daddy was NOT going to get beat up, in fact there would be NO daddy fights, she calmed down a bit. "Those words STILL hurt my feelings" she sniffed. I explained that sometimes kids say silly things that they a) don't mean and b) don't understand.
She expressed some fears for her daddy's safety and then said, "I want him to know!" with a gush of new tears. We called daddy at work, whose parental wisdom (and sense of humor) never fails to amuse me. His response? "Tell Sophia that if Malachai's daddy tries to beat our daddy up, daddy will smush him like a bug."
I've got a sneaking suspicion that I am going to have a lot of material to add to the "Kindergarten Chronicles"!
*Names have been changed to protect the innocent and/or because I think we'll be hearing about them more throughout the year!
Monday, August 10, 2009
God Bless Baby Jack
Having Jack baptized at Saint Gerald's in Omaha was so important to us. Having Father Gary baptize him was even more meaningful, Fr.Gary has played such an important role in our spiritual life. (He not only blessed our marriage in 2002, he presided over my first communion, baptized Alexa and Sophia, and gave Michael his First Communion.) Jack's baptism was made even more special because Father baptised him with his cousin, Cauner!
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